Control Your Mind
Your mind is the most powerful tool you have for the creation of good in your life, but if not used correctly, can also be the most destructive force in your life. To control your thoughts means to influence the way you live your life. This mind of yours if it is controlled it will become your best friend, lift yourself by the power of you mind. Do not degrade yourself.
The mind is a place of its own and it itself can make heaven out of hell and hell out of heaven. These were the words of John Milton, a western philosopher and how true they are. We may possess money, fame, and power yet if we have not learnt to master our mind, we will not experience the happiness and fulfillment that we are searching for in our life. Consider the example of one of the richest persons in history, named Howard Hughes. He had so much of wealth amongst his many businesses, he became a film producer in Hollywood, and developed reputation for being a playboy who went out with many famous heroines. However, by the age of 45 his phobia for germs became an obsession. While he felt he was free of germs he always feared being attacked by them from the outside. His servants had elaborate rituals they had to follow like washing their hands multiple times and covering them with paper tissues when they served him food. He himself washed wish hands until literally bled and he would cover his feet in tissue bags. If he came to know that any of his servants had fallen sick, he would get his whole wardrobe burnt to free himself from the possibility of germs. He became recluse and practically met nobody apart from his closest aides. The last two decades of his life, he spent staying in hotels in the Bahamas, Nicaragua, Mexico, Canada, England and the Vegas. Finally, when he died at the age of 70, he had practically imprisoned himself from the world physically, and mentally he was lock up in his own jail.
Here was someone who possessed so much of fame, money and power, and yet he was miserable not for lack of external opulences but merely he had not learnt how to master his own thoughts and inner machinery.
On the other hand, let me give you an example of somebody else who had practically nothing and yet is leading such a rich existence. This lady name is Sindhutai Sapkal. She was born in a poor region of Maharashtra in the district of Wardha. When she was 6 years old, she used to take her family's buffaloes for grazing and while the buffaloes were immersed in the lake, Sindhu, she would go to school and get beaten up by her teacher for coming late. When she returned to get the buffaloes, the neighbouring farmers would beat her because the buffaloes had gone into their field. When she was merely 10 years old, her poor parents married her off to a 21 year old. She had three children from that husband. When she was expecting for the fourth time, she got involved as an activist. The local mafia were using the women to lift cow dung, it was like a cow dung mafia. She informed of these activities to the collector and the collector, when he took action, the mafia got annoyed. So they incited the husband, telling him that Sindhu had an affair with one of them. Now, the husband became so annoyed, he beat his wife and then thinking her to be dead, he threw her into the cowshed. There a cow protected her and she delivered her fourth child. She cut the umbilical cord with a stone. She took the baby to her parent's home, they refuse to take her. Now, she knew she could not return. She wanted to commit suicide. She was about to throw herself on the railway track, when she heard the wailing of an old hungry man. She went to provide him solace and food and then realized that if she can help others, she can find meaning and purpose in her life. To stay away from molestation, she was residing in graveyards and she was taking grain and cooking it on the funeral pyres that were lit there. Once again she was about to commit suicide. But seeing the homeless hungry children on the footpaths, she decided to take care of a few of them and started begging to sustain them. Slowly, her efforts grew larger, and she created an orphanage and became known as "The mother of an orphans". In order to ensure no bias towards her own child, she gave that child away in an orphanage. Now, people came to know of her wonderful efforts, and they started supporting her until she raised more and more children, many of them became graduates, post graduates and even PhDs. Her own children came to know and they help in her efforts. She says the most amazing moment was when her husband regretted and he came to her broken and dilapidated for shelter, very lovingly like a mother she offered him shelter and she says he is my naughtiest child. This Sindhutai Sapkal, the mother of the orphans, is a blazing example of someone who externally was facing such hardships, but lifted her own thoughts, enriched her own mind to lead such a wonderful life. That is why i say, there is a huge difference between the quality of your living and the quality of your life. The quality of your living is determined by the external opulence and the quality of your life is determined by your inner thoughts.
Our Vedic scriptures have repeatedly emphasized the importance of the mind. Two thousand years ago, Jagadguru Shankaracharya, the first original jagadguru in Indian history, he said, "Jagad Jitam Kena." In his Prashnavali he is asking the question, "Who shall conquer the world" and the answer he provides himself, "Mano hi Yena". It means "That person who has conquered his or her own mind.
Two thousands years after Shankaracharya, the fifth original Jagadguru in Indian history, Jagadguru Shri Kripaluji Maharaj, he says, "Look, whatever spiritual practice you engage in, do ensure that you are purifying your mind because Bondage and Liberation will both be determined by the state of your mind. There are those who have learnt to master their mind. Very easily, any negative thoughts or emotions that enter, they reject them as unproductive and worthless and they choose to research on thoughts that are beneficial, that are uplifting and sublime. They tap into the inner inspiration to lead enriched lives. On the other hand are those who are slaves of their own mind. They don't realize the gap between the environment and their mind because they have never thought of controlling it, and hence they feel victimized by the circumstances, the situations outside, the behaviours of others. Consequently, they ride the roller coaster of their emotions. God has given us all many resources to lead the life we choose to. the primary amongst these is the inner machinery, called the mind .
Most of us have these two eyes, each fitted with 125 million receptors with the help of which we can relish the beauty of sunset at the beach, the grace of the eagle in flight, the glory o the mountains and the valleys in the Himalayas. We all have ears by which you can hear anything you want. Each ear is fitted with about 30 thousands tubes with the help of which you can hear sound right from 20 Hz to 20,000 Hz and you can relish the cheer of children and laughter, the rustling of the leaves by the wind, and the chirping of the birds. All of us have got this body with 640 muscles and 206 bones. This muscular skeletal system of ours is reinforced. We have 5 million pain sensors, that inform us if something is going wrong. We have got 500 thousand touch sensors, that let us know if an insect is climbing up the back. Our brain has got a 100 billion neurons. This tremendous machinery that we have, what is missing?? Our inability to control the inner machinery, called the mind. That is why in the Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna said, Arjun, "This mind of yours, if it is controlled, it will become your best friend. But if it is uncontrolled, it will be your worst enemy." So Arjun, Shri Krishna says, "Lift yourself by the power of your mind. Do not degrade yourself".
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